mardi 1 janvier 2013

Can You Text the Romance Back?

By Arnold D. Orourke


I've been using some incredible text messages lately and having mind-blowing results. I can't believe the impact these messages have on men. Text messaging is the new way of communication that almost everyone is using. It could add explosive passion to your relationship and enhance in ways you could only imagine. But most don't know the power of using it to skyrocket the feelings of romance in a man.

When you both met, it felt awesome. The feelings of attraction was very strong and he seemed to be really into you but now it feels as though your relationship has stalled. What went wrong? There are a lot of myths around why men aren't romantic and I'm gonna help you understand the real reason why your man isn't really motivated to be romantic with you and how to get make him a romance addict.

About 2 years ago, I was just replying to messages by saying, "I'd doing fine thanks" I spoke to men through text as if I was speaking with them in person and got very little result. The men felt bored and uninspired. My texts weren't fun or flirty and I didn't realize the big mistake I was making until one day a light came on.So I began doing some testing and bam! Started getting results and I started teaching other women how to get the same results. They started to apply the ideas to get the romance back using very specific text messages and it started to make their relationship better.

In order to turn your relationship around, you have to get him from feeling distant and frustrated to motivated. This could mean the difference between your relationship fizzling or it being hotter than ever.Your boyfriend or husband has an inner switch that you may not have known about and if you are able to push this inner switch, you can get him to be romantic at command. One of the ways you trigger this switch is through curiosity. You can send him a text message that will get his attention fast. This doesn't necessarily mean you're going to be sexting him.

We put a lot of effort into the beginning of a relationship, we try harder, we flirt like crazy and nothing is too much trouble! Even though life has to take priority at times, its important not to forget what works and makes both parties feels special and appreciate each other! Send that love message! Send that flirty text! Text the romance back and turn up your relationship heat.We see all around us married couples that are unhappy in their relationship because of small things that put them in a cold and emotionless place. It is rare that we meet real issues that ask for drastic solutions. Of course these are things nobody should worry about because they come along anyway and have to be resolved by communicating to one another and applying techniques that could easily bring the romance back in marriage or keep it alive.

Make a wrong text move and his feelings will fizzle, but give him just enough to stir him up and before long, he'll be on his knees waiting for the next time.There is a way to get him to give you the attention you want, you can't just send him a sexy message and expect that is going to do it. You have to know exactly how to go about keeping the momentum going so that it can spark the right feelings inside of him.You have to use your power as a woman and stop feeling like you're powerless. This is exactly what's causing you to come off as begging your man to give you attention. He sees desperation. Stop begging and start texting.You have to understand how to push his romantic buttons. Men are motivated differently than women are. Telling him you miss him will not get him to stand up and pay attention. Paint a picture in his mind and create the mood and you will see him stand up and pay attention.

Once you send him the first text or reply to his initial text, you have to be very careful. You have to strike a good balance or it will go no where. Think about your texts as a status update on your profile but make it a little bit shorter. This isn't the time to write a romantic letter, it's time to get in the game and have some fun.Make sure you appear mysterious to him. Without mystery, his mind will have no room to explore you. You want him to explore you from the inside out but you don't want him to have all the cake at once. Make him wait and create intrigue. Leave him wanting more.

On the other hand, you can utilize text messaging to arrange your night or weekend break. Who does not like peeking at her phone to realize that a surprise will be waiting for her at home? You can also cooperate via text messaging to plan a special evening for just the two of you.You might be surprised to find that your romantic messages spur similar messages from your cherished. One of the good aspects of the text message is its ability to be saved. Your partner can check back on your sweet messages in the future to bring a smile to his face.There are plenty more ways that you can connect via texting. These are just a couple of ways that you can text the romance back into a partnership if your partnership has been put on the back burner because of the strains or hustle of life.



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