There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists many schools of thoughts. Naturally with these schools of thoughts there exists various gurus, experts, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that concentrate on simply getting as much sex as you can, systems that teach you how you can seduce as many girls as possible, and those that teach you how you can obtain and maintain genuine relationships. All these pickup artist techniques are variations of a fundamental system but at different levels of sophistication. I personally do not like the get-as-much-sex-as-you-can systems due to the fact that they are shallow, prey on innocent women, and generally are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of seducing women. I prefer systems that concentrate on actual relationships and treating women like human beings rather than a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist techniques, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Amongst the many pickup artist strategies and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is one of the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and functions as the skeleton/guideline for quite a few of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (target), meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the dreaded cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Should also include a Social Hook Point. This is the critical moment in the beginning of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, since you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity with negging (playful teasing) or an entertaining discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest
You must get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrate High Value). This is the primary reason women are attracted to men: when men have a high perceived value. There are many pickup artist techniques to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), leading the conversation, etc...
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) must be baited into demonstrating her own value. This way, you're just attracted to her by her character or charm, aside from her looks. You should have her gain your interest and be attracted in something besides her looks. Given that you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you should be talking and relaxing. This is to establish a sense of comfort with each another. This is the time to relax and just BS with each other, find any common interests, and begin to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you immediately want to escalate the physical connection through kino (touching). Kinoing is the best way to evolve out of the nasty "friend zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets heavy making-out and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
Mystery: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is too fast..." "I barely know you." "No sex... okay?" or just push you away from certain areas (like her underwear). Most girls don't want to feel like a slut so they will give some form of LMR. The key here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist techniques, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and ideals. Amongst the many pickup artist strategies and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is one of the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and functions as the skeleton/guideline for quite a few of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set (target), meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the dreaded cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Should also include a Social Hook Point. This is the critical moment in the beginning of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, since you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity with negging (playful teasing) or an entertaining discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest
You must get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrate High Value). This is the primary reason women are attracted to men: when men have a high perceived value. There are many pickup artist techniques to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), leading the conversation, etc...
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) must be baited into demonstrating her own value. This way, you're just attracted to her by her character or charm, aside from her looks. You should have her gain your interest and be attracted in something besides her looks. Given that you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you should be talking and relaxing. This is to establish a sense of comfort with each another. This is the time to relax and just BS with each other, find any common interests, and begin to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you immediately want to escalate the physical connection through kino (touching). Kinoing is the best way to evolve out of the nasty "friend zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets heavy making-out and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
Mystery: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is too fast..." "I barely know you." "No sex... okay?" or just push you away from certain areas (like her underwear). Most girls don't want to feel like a slut so they will give some form of LMR. The key here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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